On Schnozz-Kissing and Girls with Short Hair

We are getting out of the car I after picked up Dylan and Rylie at school.  Dylan is telling a story.  She said she invented schnozz kissing.  Schnozz kissing is when a boy takes his schnozz and touches a girl’s face with it.  “That’s a schnozz kiss, and I invented it Mommy,”  she says. 

Oh, I say, great.  Then as I close the car door and we head for the stairs I say oh so casually, and what about two girls, can they schnozz-kiss too? 

And she says, “Yes but one of them has to have short hair.”  Which is as close to talking about butch/femme (or Susan’s short hair versus my long hair) as we’re ever likely to come for a good long while.